Friday, September 25, 2009

Teenage Girls, Oral Sex, and the New Feminism



Actress Sharon Stone has some advice for teenage girls being pressured into unwanted sex from boys: Give them oral sex so they'll leave you alone.

Stone talks about watching a mother and daughter trying on clothing in a department store. The mother was concerned about the daughter showing her stomach in the outfit she wanted to buy. When the mother walked away, Stone approached the teenager and gave her some tips on sex and avoiding diseases such as AIDS. Her advice to teenagers is simple:

Young people talk to me about what to do if they're being pressed for sex? I tell them (what I believe): oral sex is a hundred times safer than vaginal or anal sex. If you're in a situation where you cannot get out of sex, offer [oral sex]. I'm not embarrassed to tell them.

This advice is astounding. Not because a Hollywood actress opposes Christian understandings of sexual morality. That is nothing new. What's astounding is how resigned this feminist activist actress is to a patriarchy of the most predatory kind.

Sharon Stone is everything the Glamour magazine wing of American feminism celebrates. She marches for abortion rights. She raises money for liberal, feminist-friendly politicians such as former President Bill Clinton. And she can do all this by portraying on the silver screen tough, aggressive women with perfect hair, pearly-white teeth, and the physique of a teenage girl.

And her advice to a girl pressured for sex is, well, to barter with the man for one form of sex to save yourself from a more "dangerous" kind.

There was a time when American feminism understood the sexual vulnerability of women. That's when activists such as Gloria Steinem insisted on tough sexual harassment laws and legislation against date rape. Feminists suggested that women familiarize themselves with the words: "This is sexual harassment and I don't have to take it."

What feminism never understood, however, is that the sexual dignity of women cannot stand by legislation alone. When a culture views women as pieces of meat, and when corporate executives make millions off of...say, images of Sharon Stone nude...then laws alone aren't going to turn that around.

So now, instead of "This is sexual harassment and I don't have to take it," the next generation of scared, pressured girls are learning a new mantra: "May I offer you a less-dangerous-for-me orgasm?"

Call that you will, but don't call it "liberation."

Teenage Girls, Oral Sex, and the New Feminism



Actress Sharon Stone has some advice for teenage girls being pressured into unwanted sex from boys: Give them oral sex so they'll leave you alone.

Stone talks about watching a mother and daughter trying on clothing in a department store. The mother was concerned about the daughter showing her stomach in the outfit she wanted to buy. When the mother walked away, Stone approached the teenager and gave her some tips on sex and avoiding diseases such as AIDS. Her advice to teenagers is simple:

Young people talk to me about what to do if they're being pressed for sex? I tell them (what I believe): oral sex is a hundred times safer than vaginal or anal sex. If you're in a situation where you cannot get out of sex, offer [oral sex]. I'm not embarrassed to tell them.

This advice is astounding. Not because a Hollywood actress opposes Christian understandings of sexual morality. That is nothing new. What's astounding is how resigned this feminist activist actress is to a patriarchy of the most predatory kind.

Sharon Stone is everything the Glamour magazine wing of American feminism celebrates. She marches for abortion rights. She raises money for liberal, feminist-friendly politicians such as former President Bill Clinton. And she can do all this by portraying on the silver screen tough, aggressive women with perfect hair, pearly-white teeth, and the physique of a teenage girl.

And her advice to a girl pressured for sex is, well, to barter with the man for one form of sex to save yourself from a more "dangerous" kind.

There was a time when American feminism understood the sexual vulnerability of women. That's when activists such as Gloria Steinem insisted on tough sexual harassment laws and legislation against date rape. Feminists suggested that women familiarize themselves with the words: "This is sexual harassment and I don't have to take it."

What feminism never understood, however, is that the sexual dignity of women cannot stand by legislation alone. When a culture views women as pieces of meat, and when corporate executives make millions off of...say, images of Sharon Stone nude...then laws alone aren't going to turn that around.

So now, instead of "This is sexual harassment and I don't have to take it," the next generation of scared, pressured girls are learning a new mantra: "May I offer you a less-dangerous-for-me orgasm?"

Call that you will, but don't call it "liberation."

How to Give Yourself an Orgasm: Make Yourself Feel Incredibly Good & Sexually Satisfied


Nothing beats the feeling of knowing that there is no 'sexual tension' in your body to get rid of because you are regularly releasing it through masturbation. There's even a maxim which says that an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.

This is due to the fact that for both men and women, learning how to give yourself an orgasm is something that feels naturally good. Basically, what happens during an orgasm is that there is an intense feeling of pleasure characterized by a contracting-release motion within your vagina.

The way up to building an orgasm is also something that feels incredibly great. So from a woman's perspective, what are the steps that you need to follow if you want to learn how to give yourself an orgasm? Here's a quick list of some of tips and steps that you can follow.

introduction
  1. Step 1

    Relax And Let Go Of The Guilt

    When you are tangling the sheets with someone, the feeling of guilt probably adds to the excitement of things but this is not so when you are doing some solo action. If you want to learn how to give yourself an orgasm and be successful in doing it, make sure that you are a hundred percent relaxed.

    More importantly, let go of any guilt that you may feel as you work yourself towards having an orgasm. This is a perfectly natural sexual act that feels incredibly good – so why shouldn't you do it?

  2. Step 2

    Lubricate, Lubricate, Lubricate

    If there's one rule that women who are learning how to give themselves an orgasm should learn, that is none other than applying liberal lubrication. Depending on how much lubricant you wish to apply, this will make the task of learning how to give yourself an orgasm more smooth-sailing.

  3. Step 3

    Experiment With The Touch, Stroke And Pace That You Want

    While you're at it, why not experiment with the type of touch, stroke and pace that you want? Familiarize yourself with your nether regions, and touch other areas of your body which you consider to be erogenous zones.

    By doing so, you will not only be initiating your own orgasm, but you can also use the knowledge to express to your lover what you want in bed when you tangle the sheets with him.

    With these tips, you can easily allow yourself to enjoy that indescribable feeling that you have when reaching your first, second, third or even fourth orgasm.

How to Give Yourself an Orgasm: Make Yourself Feel Incredibly Good & Sexually Satisfied


Nothing beats the feeling of knowing that there is no 'sexual tension' in your body to get rid of because you are regularly releasing it through masturbation. There's even a maxim which says that an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away.

This is due to the fact that for both men and women, learning how to give yourself an orgasm is something that feels naturally good. Basically, what happens during an orgasm is that there is an intense feeling of pleasure characterized by a contracting-release motion within your vagina.

The way up to building an orgasm is also something that feels incredibly great. So from a woman's perspective, what are the steps that you need to follow if you want to learn how to give yourself an orgasm? Here's a quick list of some of tips and steps that you can follow.

introduction
  1. Step 1

    Relax And Let Go Of The Guilt

    When you are tangling the sheets with someone, the feeling of guilt probably adds to the excitement of things but this is not so when you are doing some solo action. If you want to learn how to give yourself an orgasm and be successful in doing it, make sure that you are a hundred percent relaxed.

    More importantly, let go of any guilt that you may feel as you work yourself towards having an orgasm. This is a perfectly natural sexual act that feels incredibly good – so why shouldn't you do it?

  2. Step 2

    Lubricate, Lubricate, Lubricate

    If there's one rule that women who are learning how to give themselves an orgasm should learn, that is none other than applying liberal lubrication. Depending on how much lubricant you wish to apply, this will make the task of learning how to give yourself an orgasm more smooth-sailing.

  3. Step 3

    Experiment With The Touch, Stroke And Pace That You Want

    While you're at it, why not experiment with the type of touch, stroke and pace that you want? Familiarize yourself with your nether regions, and touch other areas of your body which you consider to be erogenous zones.

    By doing so, you will not only be initiating your own orgasm, but you can also use the knowledge to express to your lover what you want in bed when you tangle the sheets with him.

    With these tips, you can easily allow yourself to enjoy that indescribable feeling that you have when reaching your first, second, third or even fourth orgasm.